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March Against Eating Disorders. More Than an "Event".

11/12/2015

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by Ellen Bennett, MOM, KMB for Answers
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This is an event that I really wish I was not part of; I wear a green shirt.  I attend because I am one angry MAED (Mothers Against Eating Disorders)momma who is passionate about helping anyone impacted by an eating disorder.  My frustration and anger about eating disorders has sent me on a quest to learn as much as I can about ED; current practices and treatment, new research, training, awareness and engagement on a national level to advocate for mental health reform.  I have experienced everything we are fighting  for; misdiagnosis, untrained medical professionals, lack of awareness and understanding, insurance obstacles, premature discharge, parent blaming; the list is endless.  I watched my daughter slowly starve herself to death and there was nothing I could do to get her the treatment she needed.

This issue is so dear to my heart, nothing will stop me from taking time off from work, traveling to DC from upstate NY, this year I was solo; knowing that when I get there I will be surrounded by people who “get it”.  I may know them from facebook or other social media or perhaps we met at the march last year or at lobby day.  I attend because, it is a place I feel connected; I feel that I am truly making a difference, making my voice heard.  And at the same time we all feel empowered that our children’s lives mattered, that they did not suffered in vain; we will be a catalyst for change.  Our hope is that the momentum that we feel at the march will resonate through the halls of the Senate and the Legislature and this injustice of inadequate and inappropriate care will no longer be an issue.  There will be no more shame associated with ED, no more stigma associated with mental illness, brain-based illnesses will be treated the same as any other disease of the body; “the brain is part of the body” will be the norm.

As we gather and share our posters, sign the card on the yellow roses, listen to speakers,  greet our sisters and brothers brought together by a common struggle, heart ache and sorrow we give each other strength, courage, hope and an overwhelming sense of peace;  we will not be silent, we will raise our collective voices to save lives.
 
There was a moment during the march when a speaker acknowledged those of us who were wearing green shirts and asked that others reach out and give us a hug.  I was overwhelmed by the number of people who came up to me to give a hug; overwhelmed and moved, a complete sense of shared deep caring and concern; I was embraced by love and understanding.  A collective shared loss, very moving and healing.

As the sun set and our candles were lit in remembrance, a sense of purpose, hope and shared commitment filled the lawn and we all dispersed into the night feeling forever changed and forever impacted by the stories, the words of Patrick Kennedy giving us a sense of collective power that an influential colleague cared enough to break the silence of secrecy to say, “NO more”; mental illness is a national issue and it should be treated with the same dignity that all other major health issues are treated.  This powerful speech gave us all a sense of sincere understanding and caring about the issues associated with ED and the importance of why we were there.  Our purpose and need to have our concerns heard was acknowledged and validated; we all left feeling a sense of accomplishment and inspired for lobbying the next day. There was a common sense of purpose, a reason to come from all across the country to say change must happen, no one should die from ED, not one should suffer for years and years; recovery is the answer. 

The MOM March 2015: a powerful and amazing experience that has inspired me to continue to fight for those we have lost and for those who struggle.  For me, it is a sense of fighting for my daughter and all the sons and daughters, moms, fathers, sisters and brothers around the world who are impacted by ED and the devastating ripple effect that is left in its wake.  Recovery is the only answer.  ED is a treatable illness, no one should die.

www.MarchAgainstED.com


4 Comments
Becky Henry link
11/13/2015 03:18:50 am

Thank you Ellen for this beautiful post on your experience of the 2015 March Against ED. Thank you to you and others for bringing your voice to be a catalyst for change. Our children's suffering has not been in vain. Thank you for making the sacrifices to come and help show our government that we are MAED and #TheTimeIsNow for eating disorders to change.
Becky Henry

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Alyson Earnest
11/13/2015 10:21:50 am

Beautifully said dear Ellen. The most powerful moment of the day on the lawn for me was the hugs of those in the green shirts. For everyone I hugged, I felt your pain, your grief, and at the same time, your courage and strength and determination. I walked away carrying with me a higher sense of purpose just from those hugs alone.
And how wonderful it was to share our hotel and Uber rides and precious conversations over those couple of days. I look forward to seeing you at the next event!

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Jesse White
11/21/2015 04:53:27 pm

Heartbreaking, but I'm so amazed by your strength and sense of purpose. Thank you for all you are doing to bring the truth to light. Love and hugs, cousin,
Jesse

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